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My late wife, Melissa, was diagnosed with stage IV synovial sarcoma ¡ª a rare type of soft tissue cancer ¡ª in January 2016. She died from complications of it on Sept. 11, 2017. But neither of us ever saw the point of asking, ¡°Why me?¡± It just didn¡¯t seem productive. Even if we could¡¯ve come up with an answer, it wasn¡¯t going to help us in any way, so we decided it wasn¡¯t going to be a part of the conversation.

Instead, we focused...